girlfriendluvr:

sufferinglesbian:

also the best advice i can give u is stop thinking about comp het too much. finding men hot is like… happens, we’re conditioned to find them hot it’s not like you’re breaking any rules! 

look really just… u love women & u wanna be with women? who cares about the rest. u can be a lesbian and u dont owe anyone any explanations about it

this is so so SO tru like, its rly all abt what feels best to u. lesbian and bi are just labels to describe experiences, but sometimes your experience is in the middle and u just go with whichever one u like better. u wanna id as bi? ur bi! u wanna id as gay? ur gay!

theres no rules, i always see young girls ask if theyre “allowed” to id as lesbians, and tje answer is ALWAYS yes. your feelings towards men are irrelevant, if you feel comfortable with the lesbian label theres a reason for that. if youre comfortable with the bi label theres a reason for that.

support lesbian, bi, & questioning girls and stop being intrusive abt their feelings towards men!!